| Ladies and
Gentlemen,
40 years of research, over 100 research studies
in the US, Canada, and other countries, have shown
conclusively that corporal punishment is risky, and
that it works poorly in promoting good behavior. The
most common finding in these studies is that
corporal punishment increases aggressive behavior.
It also greatly increases the chance a child will
have learning problems, be angry, have low
self-esteem, and relationship problems. Adults who
were corporally punished as children are more likely
to have lower IQs, lower scholastic achievement,
drug and alcohol problems, be depressed, suicidal,
and more likely to commit violent crimes such as
domestic violence, the number one cause of calls to
the Arlington Police.
Several studies have shown that the majority of
documented child abuse cases are the result of
corporal punishment. Estimates range around 70%. In
2003, 5,940 children were reported as physically
abused in MA, so according to the estimates, over
4,000 of these cases were the result of corporal
punishment. Relative exposure to spanking is
positively related to greater risk for child abuse.
Whether you think corporal punishment is abuse or
not, it’s a primary cause of the majority of
documented child abuse cases.
Research done at Maclean Hospital in Belmont*,
found that hitting a child actually changes the
child’s brain chemistry. A study done at the
University of Houston showed that even “mild”
corporal punishment, such as slapping a toddler’s
hand, has been linked to worse behavior and less
obedience. A study in Canada has shown that when
parents stop spanking a child, the child’s behavior
actually improves. And if you don’t care about all
that research, consider this one: a recent study has
found that people who were hit as children are more
likely to hit their elderly parents.
Medicines have been taken off the shelf with far
less evidence of risks. But with corporal
punishment, old habits die hard. Too many people
still don’t want to face the truth.
Some people say “but there are already laws
against child abuse”. Sure, but only if the
punishment reaches the level of causing “substantial
physical injury”.
And so, corporal punishment continues at a high
rate. 57% of Massachusetts adults approve of
slapping and spanking, 23% think it’s OK to put soap
in a child’s mouth, a practice that medical doctors
condemn because it can cause burning of the
esophagus, choking, and severe allergic reactions.
Child abuse laws in MA don’t protect children from
these practices. They are legal. Only if the
punishment reaches the level of “substantial injury”
is it possible to legally stop these practices,
because assault laws used for adults are not applied
to children. This is because of the myths
surrounding corporal punishment, the myth of “a good
spanking”, the old wives’ advice of “washing a
child’s mouth out with soap”. Attitudes toward
corporal punishment need to change. What will it
take to change society’s attitudes?
Around the world, governments are taking action
to educate the public about the risks of corporal
punishment. The research studies, most of which have
taken place in the US, are being used by countries
in Europe, Canada, South America, New Zealand, and
Africa, to change policies toward the common
practice of hitting children. 17 countries have
banned all corporal punishment. They don’t imprison
parents, they don’t give them big fines; they
educate parents and caretakers about better modes of
discipline. Spain doesn’t have a ban, but they have
instituted a massive nation-wide educational
program, as have several other countries. Canada’s
government encourages parents to use gentler forms
of discipline, and publishes 2 pamphlets on positive
discipline that are widely distributed. Also,
Canada’s Supreme Court has banned hitting babies and
teenagers, and using an object to hit a child.
But in the US, we’re not making progress.
Government is letting children down. The US is where
most of the policy-changing research has been done,
but our government neglects to take action. Our
federal government gives lip-service to children’s
needs, and then guts programs to help them. The US
has not ratified the UN treaty on the Rights of the
Child. 192 nations have ratified this treaty. Only
the US and Somalia have not. And Somalia has no
government to ratify anything. The US stands pretty
much alone, in not even taking this basic step in
affirming children’s rights to an upbringing free of
physical violence.
The US is the only country to allow “boot camps”
for 8 to 18 year olds. These “boot camps” allow the
most heinous physical punishment of children,
hitting them, roughing them up, sometimes punching
them to death. 44 children have died in these
institutions. The US is the only country to allow
the sale of devices specifically to whip children,
such as this whip made in OK. The US has the highest
child abuse rate of all industrialized countries. We
also have the highest violent crime rate, and the
highest incarceration rate. We have a huge problem
with violence, which has its roots in the common
violence toward children in this country.
Estimates of deaths of US children from corporal
punishment range from 1,000 to 4,000 per year. It’s
hard to get accurate statistics; adults typically
try to cover up the truth about these deaths, and
make them look like accidents. But even with the
most modest number, we have a rate of death per year
that is higher than the rate of death per year of US
military personnel in Iraq! Look at the huge outcry
on behalf of these servicemen and women! Where is
the outcry on behalf of US children physically
punished to death? How many children have to die
from corporal punishment before we finally take a
stand and condemn corporal punishment once and for
all?
It is brave and noble to take a stand for
children. And you won’t be alone. Resolutions of
this type have passed in Brookline, and in Chicago.
Nothing bad happened! It’s healthy and necessary to
take a stand. We must acknowledge that change needs
to happen. We must break the cycle of violence. And
we must act locally, with resolutions, because our
federal and state governments are not addressing the
problem.
In 2003, a resolution against corporal punishment
was presented at Arlington Town Meeting. The
selectmen approved it. Now, in 2006, the selectmen
are saying this type of resolution is
“inappropriate” for Town Meeting. How did it
suddenly become “inappropriate”?
Government, in its original form, was intended to
protect the weak from the strong. The Code of
Hammurabi, the oldest code of government, states
“The first duty of government is to protect the
powerless against the powerful.” The Mayflower
Compact stresses that government officials MUST
"love and promote the common good." The Declaration
of Independence states that people deserve a
government that will promote "Safety and Happiness".
It also decries "cruelty". The Constitution states
that government is to "ensure domestic tranquillity"
and "promote the General Welfare." The 1st Amendment
states that "People have a right to petition the
Government for a redress of grievances." The Pledge
of Allegiance proclaims "liberty and justice for
all." Certainly Arlington's Town Meeting can also
take a stand for safety, happiness, and justice for
children! They are 1/4 of Arlington's population,
and they are the future. It is both appropriate and
right to take such a stand.
It is easy to forget children, to belittle their
rights. There are no children here; they can’t vote,
not yet anyway. Yet they are people too, they are
citizens too! I ask you to listen to their voices.
Here are quotes from children, about how they feel
when they are corporally punished: unloved,
terrified, sad, angry, alone, abandoned, sick,
stunned, physically abused, hateful, ashamed,
confused, resentful, neglected, humiliated,
uncared-for, heartbroken, bullied, depressed,
shocked, “It makes you feel sick…because it breaks
your heart.” 2 girls at Arlington High School
thanked me for standing up for their rights. They
both suffered corporal punishment, and were in the
care of DSS. When children receive no spanking
stickers, they shout “YES!!” they thank me, they ask
for more, they stick them to their bodies, they are
so happy.
The children of Arlington are listening. My 7
year old daughter is listening. They will find out,
sooner or later, how you voted tonight. These people
are the voters of the future. I would think they’d
be more inclined to vote for someone who stood up
for their right not to be hit. I would think they’d
be more inclined to vote for someone who stood up
for them when they were most vulnerable.
Albert Einstein said “The world is too dangerous
to live in – not because of the people who do evil,
but because of the people who sit and let it
happen.” Philosopher and economist John Stuart Mill
said “A person may cause evil to others not only by
his actions but by his inaction, and in either case
he is justly accountable to them for the injury.”
What if an Arlington child is punished nearly to
death, like Haleigh Poutre of Westfield MA? How will
you feel then, if you voted against this resolution?
Please, be what government is supposed to be, a
noble entity designed to protect the weak, to
embrace positive change, to work for the common
good, to stand for peace, equality, and progress. As
responsible adults, we must speak for the voiceless.
It’s the appropriate thing to do. Please vote “YES”
on Article 67.
Susan Lawrence |
WARRANT ARTICLE - POSITIVE PARENTING
RESOLUTION
WHEREAS, all children need love, guidance,
and safety, and deserve to grow up in an environment
free from violence and physical harm; and
WHEREAS, childhood is an especially
vulnerable and impressionable stage of life during
which future behavior, happiness and psychological
health are greatly influenced; and
WHEREAS, positive, non-violent parenting
promotes positive, peaceful relationships and
respect for the rights and safety of others; and
WHEREAS, current research shows that
exposure to violence negatively impacts normal brain
development; and
WHEREAS, current research indicates that
the majority of child abuse cases start out as
corporal punishment, and
WHEREAS, current research shows a strong
correlation between corporal punishment and
increased aggression, depression, substance abuse,
learning disorders, and lower scholastic
achievement; and
WHEREAS, current research shows that
corporal punishment of children is associated with
worse behavior, and the cessation of corporal
punishment is associated with improved behavior; and
WHEREAS, current research shows that
children who are shown love and respect and are
disciplined without corporal punishment are more
likely to become adults who enjoy higher
self-esteem, better psychological health, higher
academic achievement, more peaceful relationships,
and more respect for others’ safety; now therefore,
BE IT HEREBY RESOLVED, that Town Meeting
of Arlington encourages caregivers to refrain from
the use of corporal punishment, and to use positive,
non-violent forms of discipline, in the effort to
reduce violence and to protect our children’s health
and future well-being, and to promote safety and
peace for all; and
BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED, that Town Meeting
of Arlington encourages appropriate Town groups to
help raise awareness of this important issue by
distributing positive parenting literature within
the Town through schools and community
organizations. |